Thursday, May 5, 2011

My Man Is A Cross-dresser - Should I Marry Him?



Can you please give me some advice on what to do?

Dear Mr.

I have the most loving relationship any girl could ask for. The sex is great, my man is very caring, I want for nothing, my 3 kids (for this same man) are very happy as he loves them and showers them with affection. From the outside looking in, it is the perfect relationship. My problem is this, he has asked me to marry him and I am having serious doubts. A while back I saw him with some female garments and we had this huge argument as I thought he was having an affair and that is when he confessed to me that he is a cross dresser. He said that he is happy that I finally find out and that he can be himself around me. He assures me that he is not gay, that he is not bi-sexual that he just loves to wear female clothes and make-up. My problem is I don’t know if I should marry him. I need your advice.
-Confused

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Dear Confused,
I think that you should look at the substance of your relationship over the matter. Women's intuition is very good and you can tell if your man is gay. If your intuition tells you that he is not (don't be in denial if it tells you that he is) then I think that you should go ahead and marry the man. You should discuss this openly though before you get married and tell him what you honestly feel about him dressing up as a woman.

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