Monday, March 14, 2011

I HAVE CHEATED WITH MY PARTNER BROTHER GIRL.


Dear Celberity inc,

Thank God this is anonymous because I really need advice and I don't know where to turn.

I broke up with my long term boyfriend almost a year ago. It wasn't a terrible break up, but I was dishonest with him about why I was ending the relationship. The truth is, I was cheating on him. A lot. I made out with three different guys and even had sex with his brother girl friend during a sleep over at his house while he was out clubbing.

They were all one night stands, (don't know if that makes it any better), but I couldn't bring myself to tell him the truth. We had a good enough relationship while it lasted, but we just grew apart and I waited too long to end it... so long that I ended up cheating. He still has no idea.

I have so much guilt, and I don't think I should put anyone through the torture of dating me if I'm just going to end up cheating on them. I just feel undateable. What should I do?

Help,

Hi M.D
THANKS FOR YOUR LETTER, I THINK BEFORE YOU MOVE ON IN ANY TYPE OF COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF FIRST, YOU KNOW YOUR DOING WRONG BUT SOME HOW FAIL TO BE PRUDENT,
WHATS DONE IS DONE FOCUS ON THE NEW YOU. NOT BECAUSE YOU HAVE MADE MISTAKE IN THE PAST YOU SHOULD WEAR THE GUILT FOREVER THATS HOW WE EVOLVED BY LEARNING FROM OUR PAST, AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENT IS THE FIRST SIGN OF LEARNING, YOU WILL BE OK JUST MOVE ON KNOWING THAT LIFE IT SELF IS A LESSON AND REMEMBER COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO ALL RELATIONSHIP SO THE NEXT TIME YOU FEEL LIKE CHEATING TALK TO YOUR PARTNER ABOUT WHATS PUSHING YOU TO DO SO.

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